Create the relationships
you really want
Are You Feeling Unfulfilled in Your Intimate Relationship?
Only a fellow parent AND former child in a blended family understands the different perspectives of your family
You want your relationship to work…maybe. Everyone around you thinks your relationship is rock-solid, but it doesn’t feel that way to you – at least, not anymore. If only your partner would: (fill in the blank). Or perhaps you’re not even sure about that. You just know that something doesn’t feel right and sometimes, it can feel lonely.
I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to be married to someone for over 20 years and start to question if this person is still your soulmate. It can be confusing, scary, and like you’ve somehow failed.
Long-term relationships change over time in ways you don’t anticipate. You might be fighting more frequently, sex might be non-existent, and/or you might feel a growing distance between you. You and your partner might have grown apart over time and feel like roommates rather than romantic partners.
It doesn’t have to be that way.
When you work with me, we discuss what’s going on and what you want for your relationship. You might not know at first what that is, but I help you to figure it out. Sometimes, that means you no longer want to be together. In that case, I help you to make sense of what happened and determine what you want for yourselves moving forward. If you want to remain together, I help you re-build your connection in a way that feels mutually satisfying. It takes time and effort, but the pay-off is well worth it.
What if your partner isn’t interested in coaching?
Even if you can’t convince your partner to come to sessions with you, you can accomplish a great deal for you and your relationship in individual coaching. Partners affect one another, so when one person changes, it changes the relationship. When you engage in coaching it doesn’t mean YOU’RE the problem; it means you value yourself and your relationship and you’re ready to do what it takes to make your life better.
I’ve had a variety of life experiences that help me understand what you’re going through. I’ve been in a long-term relationship, divorced, re-married, had kids, adopted, parented kids with special needs, experienced challenges with sex and intimacy, recovered from trauma, and have done A LOT of my own healing work.
I love helping couples, step-couples, and individuals feel more connected to themselves and with others. I help people with communication, sex, emotional connection, infidelity, managing conflict, grief, establishing boundaries, letting go of control, managing anxiety, identifying patterns that keep them stuck, figuring out what they want in life and in their relationships, and more.
It's Time to Get on Track
You don’t have to continue feeling stressed, lonely, and unfulfilled in your intimate relationship. Whether you come to me on your own or with your partner, I have a plan that I will tailor to meet your unique needs. Life is too short to continue on this way.
- I'll meet with you (and your partner) to get to know you both, and learn about your relationship
- I'll help you identify your goals
- You, (and your partner if applicable), and I will spend time together 3-4 times per month, via Zoom, to make your plan a reality
- We'll use an assessment tool called the Energy Leadership Index (ELI) to examine your worldview and how you approach relationships and other situations in your life.
- If you choose to use your ELI results, I'll coach you to increase the choices available to you when making decisions in your relationships; this can be transformative!
- If you have kids, I'll be curious about the other things that make your family unique, too: the structure, the identity and abilities of each family member, and the kind of support you might have or need from your extended family and community
- When appropriate, I'll recommend resources and give you tips for improving your relationships
- I'll create a plan to help you make your goals a reality
- You and your partner will each get a free, individual session with me
- You'll have access to me during the week via text and email
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I'll hold you accountable for the work you agree to do
Imagine a Different Tomorrow
I believe deeply in love and in its power to heal and transform us.
It’s easy to replay the bad moments over and over, the times you and your partner fought, the times you felt neglected, and didn’t know what to do about it. But try something with me: imagine things going your way. Imagine waking up and looking forward to spending time with your partner. Imagine feeling seen, heard, and appreciated. Imagine feeling loved by your partner and knowing that you can create a beautiful life for yourselves, full of connection and play. It’s possible.
Identify your needs
When we know what we need and how to ask for it, our relationships feel safer and more connected
Enjoy Your Partner
Learn how to nurture your relationship with your partner so you feel loved and supported
Improve your Sexual Connection
Create a sexual relationship built on authentic emotional connection, trust, and communication
Are You Ready to Get Started?
At this point, you can follow one of two paths. First, you can move on without clicking the button below and continue doing what you’ve always done. And, chances are, you’ll continue getting what you’ve always gotten. You can continue to struggle with your family and face the challenges alone.
Or you can choose the second path.
You can choose to do something different, to stop trying to figure this out all by yourself and instead use the guidance of someone who has already figured out how to achieve the very things you want so badly. You know where you’ll be in a year if you choose to do nothing, but there’s no telling how incredible things could be with you and your loved-ones with an expert by your side, supporting and guiding you every step of the way.
If you’re ready to have the loving relationships you’ve always wanted, I invite you to choose the second path, click the button below, and take the first step toward a bigger, brighter tomorrow.
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